Life isn't a test, we don't have to study and be prepared because we almost always have to be ready at any given moment. What we should do is take lots and lots of mental notes. If you go through a tough time, relationship, money problems...make sure to keep mental steps on how to avoid that same problem again. We don't get lectures on how to go through it all and a lot of it is learn as you go<----did you catch that word???? I said learn!!! There is many instances in my life where I made the same mistake over and over again because I refused to learn the lesson the first time life threw it at me. I laugh when people ask me why I am not dating or why I don't go out anymore...right now I am taking some time off to realize what I truly want in a relationship and what I want to achieve in life.
I love the fact that I went through my life phases and learned things from my mistakes. They are not all easy to learn because we are humans and a part of being human is not wanting to admit our wrongs, but when we finally get fed up with repeating cycles we break down and build up into better people. Weekend homework assignment for all my readers is try to break a nasty cycle.
Ms.Breezy
Showing posts with label phase series. Show all posts
Showing posts with label phase series. Show all posts
Maturity
Hello my faithful readers we have arrived at Friday again, yahoooooooo!!!Well, I decided continue where I left off yesterday. I wrote about consistency and today I will speak on maturity also known as growth. There are so many people that age and the correct way to age is with wisdom and maturity, but some never do that. The people that never mature always wonder why people treat them a certain way. The reason people whom have achieved the next level really do not want to deal with the ones who do not. I am sure all of us have made mistakes and done things that if we had thought it out a little more we would not have done them. As we mature we learn that there is no reason to rush through things. We also learn how to separate ourselves from the things that are second thought to us or do not have as much importance as others.
There is no problem with being young dumb, but we should at least become old and wise. I aim for personal growth, maturity, and wisdom everyday. I try to talk to different people and the reason for that is, so that I know how they think. We sometimes will appreciate a person more or deal with them less if we know why they act the way they do. Also, just because we have become wise and matured it does not mean that we will never make mistakes again, but hopefully we will minimize them. The homework for this weekend is to do an inventory in our life and figure out which stage we are in. Have we passed the introduction and are in growth or are we stuck between them....once you figure out which phase you are in then you will be more proactive in them. As always have a great weekend and God-willing catch me again on Monday.
Ms. Breezy
There is no problem with being young dumb, but we should at least become old and wise. I aim for personal growth, maturity, and wisdom everyday. I try to talk to different people and the reason for that is, so that I know how they think. We sometimes will appreciate a person more or deal with them less if we know why they act the way they do. Also, just because we have become wise and matured it does not mean that we will never make mistakes again, but hopefully we will minimize them. The homework for this weekend is to do an inventory in our life and figure out which stage we are in. Have we passed the introduction and are in growth or are we stuck between them....once you figure out which phase you are in then you will be more proactive in them. As always have a great weekend and God-willing catch me again on Monday.
Ms. Breezy
Consistency
I realize there have been many times in which I gave up on something. Why? Either because I was not consistent with it or the people whom I was involved with were not. When we remain on track, regardless of the distractions, regardless of the craziness, and regardless of whatever life throws at us we are more likely to succeed. Much of the advice I present you guys is taught in business class, not saying you have to go to class to learn, but it worked for me. Well basically we have stages and you have the introduction stage, which can last a while.
Introduction is simple it is the stage where you are presenting your product (regardless of what that product is). If you want to apply it in life, let's say you want to introduce a new way of doing things or you want to start working out, our bodies will not recognize this new thing for a few days, months, or depending on what we are changing years. Now is there something you decided to do and then did not see the fruits of it and chose to walk away? Well that may have happened because you were still in the introduction phase. Do not think that things happen quickly, yes you should have a plan and act on it, but understand that life does not revolve around us, but we evolve with life and that can take a long time. I will leave you all with this today and I may speak on the next phase (Growth) tomorrow...as always Ms. Breezy
Introduction is simple it is the stage where you are presenting your product (regardless of what that product is). If you want to apply it in life, let's say you want to introduce a new way of doing things or you want to start working out, our bodies will not recognize this new thing for a few days, months, or depending on what we are changing years. Now is there something you decided to do and then did not see the fruits of it and chose to walk away? Well that may have happened because you were still in the introduction phase. Do not think that things happen quickly, yes you should have a plan and act on it, but understand that life does not revolve around us, but we evolve with life and that can take a long time. I will leave you all with this today and I may speak on the next phase (Growth) tomorrow...as always Ms. Breezy
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