You Never Know

Today I want to talk about how we address people. At times we want to be "REAL" 24/7 and use that as an excuse to be nasty and talk to people any kind of way. When you speak to people, you never know exactly what they are going through and at times that can truly affect someone in a negative way. I share a lot of my life and circumstances on this page, but I never share it all. At any given day I could be going through something and I may keep it to myself. I have gone through many changes in my life, some for the better and some for the worse.

There is a saying and it definitely makes absolute sense to me "it's not what you say, but how you say it." <---have you ever thought of that. I have said some pretty nasty things, but worded it nicely, so when the person heard it they weren't so hurt. There have also been instances where I said things in a harsh manner, that I never intended it to hurt someone, but it did. I am trying my best to change this habit of mine. I ask everyone that reads this blog to consider times that you were going through things and all you needed was kind words and remember that the person you need to address may be in the same position now.

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